4 Things That Make a Man Fall Deeply in Love with You

In this video, you will learn the 4 things a man needs to fall deeply in love with you. These tips are based on solid psychological science and are they are things you can start using immediately to encourage the guy you’re dating to fall in love with you.

Precursors to falling in love – See Aron, A., Dutton, D. G., Aron, E. N., & Iverson, A. (1989). Experiences of falling in love. Journal of Social and Personal Relationships,6, 243–257.

1. Reciprocal liking is the interest expressed between two people, through mutual disclosure and other such actions;
2. Appearance refers to attractiveness of the other’s general physical characteristics (e.g.,
good-looking, nice body)
3. Personality refers to attractiveness of the other’s personality (e.g., intelligent, humorous).
4. Similarity means having things in common, including attitudes, experiences, interests, and personal factors such as appearance, personality, and family background.
5. Familiarity includes exposure to the other or spending time together.
6. Social influence is the approval or disapproval expressed by the self’s or the other’s social network of friends and family.
7. Filling needs means having the self’s needs met or meeting the needs of the other and typically implies characteristics that are highly valued and beneficial in relationship maintenance (e.g., compassion, respect).
8. Arousal can refer to strong physiological reactions that may occur when meeting the other in an unexpected circumstance and/or the misattribution of arousal to attraction.
9. Readiness means being emotionally or physically prepared for seeking a romantic relationship, such as having just broken up with someone and seeking comfort in a new partner.
10. Specific cues are particular characteristics of the other (e.g., smile, shape of the eyes), that are relevant to the perceiver in producing strong attractions.
11. Isolation refers to being alone with the other.
12. Mysteriousness can be viewed as a trait of the other (e.g., there’s something I want to know about him/her) or uncertainty about the circumstances

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