For many, Love is failing as a lot of us are guilty of self-sabotage! Raquel Peel studies romantic relationships. In a poignant, deep, and insightful talk, she shares the results from her research and her own journey of self-sabotage. This talk will instigate you to turn the lens on yourself and your own behaviours in relationships. Raquel Peel is currently doing a PhD and is a lecturer at James Cook University. She holds a Bachelor of Psychology with Honours and a Bachelor of Arts with double major in Art History and Music. She has conducted research in suicide, bullying, stigma, religiosity, rural health, and romantic relationships. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx