When a Man Ignores You - Do This!
Are you Being ignored by someone you care about?  If so, you know it’s one of the most frustrating and difficult situations to deal with especially when you don’t know what to do about it.  That’s why In this video, I’m going to share the reasons why is he ignoring me and I’m going to tell you exactly what to do when he ignores you. And you will learn the answer to why is he ignoring me.

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Being ignored by a person you care about is one of the worst emotions …  it’s right there next to rejection… maybe worse.  In Fact… ignoring someone is a way of inflicting pain on another person with out visible bruising. And that is not a metaphor.. the silent treatment activates the same area of the brain that is activated by physical pain.. so you feel physical pain. So Being ignored is frustrating and hurtful and unfortunately all too common in dating relationships, but why? Well, people resort to ignoring you for several reasons including wanting to manipulate you, control you, or to break up with you.  

Being ignored is incredibly difficult to handle and often makes you feel like you’re in a panic mode…. And here is why. Being ignored forces you to deal with uncertainty and ambiguity …and the brain does not like uncertainty or ambiguity… especially when you can imagine scenarios in which you are threatened or fear a loss. I’ve talked about this before… It’s a phenomenon that has been well researched.

So, if you’re being ignored.. how do you handle it? First I want to generalize the reasons why someone is ignoring you into just two categories - the first is because they are just not into you… in other words they want to break up with you…. The second reason … they are ignoring you as a form of punishment to manipulate or control you in some way.

I know how frustrating it is to feel like you’re being ignored. It’s can be a powerful form of abuse. But Sometimes it happens in the middle of a heated argument, and temporary Silence can be healthy.  Especially to avoid exacerbating the situation or to avoid saying something that is later regretted. However, deliberately giving someone the silent treatment as a method of control or punishment is abusive- it’s not problem solving.  When there is a problem between two people, the only healthy thing is to engage in dialogue to find solutions. Silence and distance only generate more problems and, in the end, solve absolutely nothing.

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