Like to make people happy? Me too!
Forget you count as people? ME TOO! Let's fix this.
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LINKS:

ARTICLES:

https://blogs.psychcentral.com/imperfect/2016/01/how-to-be-more-assertive-when-youre-a-people-pleaser/

https://www.selfgrowth.com/articles/Hurley14.html

https://www.verywellmind.com/what-is-passive-communication-3024630

https://www.uky.edu/hr/sites/www.uky.edu.hr/files/wellness/images/Conf14_FourCommStyles.pdf

http://methmac.com.au/silence-isnt-golden-problem-passive-communication/

https://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/stress-management/in-depth/assertive/art-20044644

https://www.impactfactory.com/library/assertive-communication-6-tips-effective-use

https://www.sunrisertc.com/dear-man/

VIDEOS:

People pleasing:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-45Bpca_uOA

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8hYTPl7MkiA

Assertive communication:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MMc8AP9KhEM

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=04J2vghWwJk (weird but funny)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NBkvWCmz2W4

https://www.ted.com/talks/adam_galinsky_how_to_speak_up_for_yourself?language=en

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PIumypOgAfE

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JtWhleOKbo8

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9zbt_9R8GrM (long but good)


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