A channel visitor asked: "What would you say to a guy who says on the first date "I'm not digging the twists in your hair?" Advice columnist and relationship expert Deborrah Cooper responds to the question providing three options for women - the passive response, the dismissive response, and the assertive response. Which option YOU choose as a single woman would be based on several factors, outlined in the video. How to eliminate first date nonsense from single black men.

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