Can a narcissists fall in love?

The short answer is yes. However, it’s probably not the type of love you’re thinking of right now.

If you’re an average person who sees love as something along the lines of understanding, acceptance, and compromise, then you’re in for a surprising ride, because this is what truly happens when a narcissist falls in love.

Disclaimer:
1. This video is for educational purposes only and is not intended to be a substitute for professional advice or diagnosis.

2. if you relate to this video, please do not take it as a personal attack. if you suspect you're a narcissist, chances are, you're probably not one because you still have the capacity to reflect on that. We are talking about people who are on the higher end of the NPD spectrum.

Writer: Chamae
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