Society is constantly telling us what we should do, how we should look, and who we should be. But is there another way to live? Kitty Rong describes a way in which love can break through the barriers placed on us. Ms. Kitty Rong is a well-being counselor at Tianjin International School in Tianjin, China. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx