Do you feel as if you're someone's choice rather than their priority? Does the person you put first always puts you last? Do they take you for granted and don't treat you like a priority? The truth is, you should never feel guilty or ashamed about asking someone to put in as much effort as you do into making a relationship work. There may be times when you’ll just have to understand if they’re too busy or overwhelmed with all the things going on in their lives to spare you much of a thought, there’s a difference being someone’s priority sometimes and being an option. So, we've created this video to help you find out whether the person you love truly prioritize you in their lives.

If you relate to this video and you're worried about whether your relationship with them will last, we've also made a video on the signs a relationship won't last: https://youtu.be/jCZdN_PL0f4

Writer: Chloe Avenasa
Script Editor: Morgan Franz
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
VO: Amanda Silvera
Animator: Christina Weston
YouTube Manager: Cindy Cheong

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