Communication between two people in an intimate relationship seems to be difficult due to many obstacles. I will work to convince you that a major problem is the lack of time devoted to this matter—not investing efforts in "writing your own user manual" on the one hand and forcing oneself to read these important manuals on the other.

Dr. Itzhak 'Zahy' Ben-Zion MD MHA is a Psychiatrist and sex medicine specialist. He was born in Bat-Yam, Israel, in 1964. After completing high school, at the age of 16, he studied Philosophy and Mathematics, and served in the IDF in the intelligence forces. Dr. Ben Zion graduated from the BGU School of medicine and began an internship in Urology until he then transferred to Psychiatry in order to practice sex medicine. He was one of the first researchers on the, then new, erection pills such as Viagra, Cialis and Levitra.

Dr. Ben-Zion is a certified sexologist and Psychotherapist specializing in couple sexual and marital dysfunction. He became known for his lectures in his fields of expertise, in which he uses stand-up humor techniques to try to teach the audience how to become a better lover and loved one.

Married for more than 25 years and father of four—he tries to behave in accordance with his inelegant offers...