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A friend told me that when she was growing up, she always had a slew of guy friends. This wasn’t surprising since she was nerdy and would rather be playing video games than getting mani-pedis.
Throughout her youth, seven of her friends confessed their feelings for her at one time or another. Four times it happened as soon as she started dating someone else.

This isn’t uncommon in the world of straight male-female friendships.
In a survey, 88 pairs of young male and female friends were asked to rate their attraction to each other in a confidential questionnaire. The findings showed that men — whether attached or single — were more likely to be attracted to their female friends than the other way around.
Men also assumed their female friends were more romantically interested in them than they actually were, and the women were usually unaware of this.
Women are much more subtle than men about expressing their interest, but, if you pay attention, it’s actually pretty obvious.
It’s also really obvious when women aren’t interested if you look for some key aspects:

She’s in a relationship with someone else.

Look, despite how you might feel such a way, if she’s in a relationship with someone other than you, she is not interested in you.
It doesn’t matter if you’re a better fit for her, or if you think she’s throwing hints (since, I hate to say it, but you could be imagining them). You deserve to be someone’s #1, and that’s not possible if she’s taken.
In this case, let her go, and not in a “I’ll hang out until she’s single again…” sort of way. If you seriously can’t stop holding a flame for her, distance yourself, set boundaries, etc.
While Jim and Pam from The Office is a great love story, you don’t ever want to be Jim. You deserve a happy ending, and Jim was never guaranteed one.

Her smile isn’t genuine.

We all smile out of politeness. I’m a champ at the quick lip lift when I’m passing a stranger on the street, but that’s not a smile I would reserve for someone I was into.
Real smiles crinkle the skin on the outer edges of each of the smiler’s eyes.
When you see her, what kind of smile does she give you on average? Don’t focus on the one or two times she may have been bursting with excitement and that got directed at you, or the one or two times she was having a rough day.
An assessment of the average should be able to help you tell if she sees you as just a bud or the guy for her.

She doesn’t make much eye contact with you.

People convey their level of comfort and interest by how often they meet the eyes of the people they’re around.
If you approach a woman and she answers you verbally, but intentionally avoids meeting your eye, this is the opposite of interest. She’s anti-you.
If this is how you’re being treated, this isn’t an opportunity for you to “convince” her to feel differently about you. Give up, and move on.

She keeps checking her phone.

If you were her priority, she wouldn’t be checking her phone constantly to see if someone better is texting her.

Her body language is closed.

If her arms are crossed in front of her chest, the best case scenario is that she’s cold, but the most likely scenario is that she’s guarded and closed-off.
If a woman is comfortable with you, she’s into you. If she’s not? The opposite is true.

You’re the one handling all of the labor of trying to get together.

In the world of dating, this is called “curving.” She responds whenever you text, but she never texts first. She’ll hang out with you, but only if you arrange all the when’s and where’s first.
This may not feel like a one-sided relationship, but it is. You’re putting more energy in than she is. If she was interested in seeing and talking to you more often, she’d be blowing you up, not just responding or making plans once you do first.

She takes more than 24 hours to get back to you.

While it’s true that everyone gets busy, if you were a priority to her, she’d be excitedly awaiting your texts and be quick with her replies.
If she continually doesn’t respond like a text from you is the best thing she’s gotten all day, assume you’re not the guy who’s caught her eye.

She’s not breaking the touch barrier.

Most women touch men they are interested in, but it’s all about what’s out of the norm.