Goals are the essence of success according to many. They allow for a clear path forward and contribute greatly to motivation of the person who sets them. However, thee is a system behind setting one's goals, since there are many things to avoid in the process. Rawda Abed is a senior at Safir International School. She has deep passion for self development. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx