When women date with intent and focus and use their dating time to ask pointed questions about a man's past, present, goals and habits - these guys get upset! They claim to feel bullied and attacked when women ask questions to weed them out.

But isn't that the point of dating - to find the right fit? Someone who is not only in the same book but the same page as you so that you can hit the ground running and build a legacy for your family and children?

Why would a woman spend her precious time investing in a man who has few if any of the foundational things she seeks in a partner just because he wants a chance? Why should she set herself up for STRUGGLE LOVE with a man who doesn't meet her standards?

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