9 signs she's testing you. When a relationship is new, you may detect signals that she is putting you to the test. Choosing a life partner is a big decision, so it's understandable that a woman would put a man to the test to see if they're a good match. The great thing is that she loves you enough to think of you as a potential mate. She is definitely interested in you, but she does not want to waste your time if the relationship would end soon. A woman may put you to the test in a variety of ways. Each woman is different, and her needs may differ. So, in this video we will cover, 9 signs she's testing you.