#relationshipaddiction #relationshipaddictionrecovery #breakupwithdrawal In this video, you will learn about love and relationship addiction recovery and withdrawal. Fantasy thinking manifests as codependency. Below the veil of consciousness, our shame drives us to attach to others, which allows us to avoid the pain within.

When we are codependent in relationships, we can chase approval, enable, and seek to fix others. We do not know how to love the self first, so we focus on others. Until we heal our abandonment issues, we may stay stuck in relationship addictions.

0:00 Introduction
1:27 Breakups are worse for those who have suffered abandonment trauma.
2:31 If you suffered abandonment, breakups trigger the survival mechanism.
4:38 The deeper the abandonment the deeper the fear of letting go and being unattached.
7:08 Codependents lack a sense of self, cannot protect the self, do not value their realities, and suck at self-care
8:41 All of us are products of our pasts our patterns and our subconscious programs.
9:36 Relationship withdrawal feels like we are experiencing abandonment from the past.

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