Jess Lorimer’s talk will propose the possibility that everyday influences like print and film media, social media and societal norms are causing couples to have less sex, despite seeing it promoted more often. Couples are frequently led to believe that their sex life is ‘not enough’ based on media representation and we're going to explore how the reality is impacting long-term relationships. Jess Lorimer is a recovering millennial perfectionist who had the perfect academic record, the high-flying corporate job, and subsequently the crippling anxiety and burnout that led to creating a sales training consultancy and spending her free time analysing human behaviour. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx