What’s good you tube? This video is about why guys give girls mixed signals.

The first question come from Brenee. Shout out Brenee! She and another lovely woman who would like to remain anonymous are the ones who inspired this video.
So Brenee writes, what about mixed signal? One minute he’s all up on me for a hug and the next minute he just speaks me. I can’t quite read his energy.(distressed emoji)
Well Brenee, sometimes a guy doesn’t want to look to eager to great you or talk to you. Other times he just can’t help himself. Depending on his confidence level and how much he’s missed you his greeting and communication habits may change from day to day. That’s why he goes from Damn gorgeous I aint seen you in like 3 hours, you know you gotta give me a hug! To……….whats up?
He doesn’t want to look desperate or make it obvious he likes you. Especially if he’s not sure how much you like him. He doesn’t want you to feel obligated to hug him every time you see him. He want you to want to hug him because you want to not because you being nice. No guy wants to be known as the creepy hugger. If your crush initiates a hug a couple times a week but has back off for a more subtle approach you hug him first. And say something playful in his ear like ”playing hard to get today huh?” That will make him feel more welcome to approach you and maybe even asking you out.
Another mixed signal sent to me by someone who will remain nameless is about when a guy kisses you or tries to do stuff with you but swears he’s not looking for a relationship. He’s calls you a lot and gives you all the attention you want but says he’s just not ready for a commitment. It doesn’t stop him from making out with you though. When you ask him where you stand he says he just wants to have fun. Ladies…. In this context guys use the words fun and fuck interchangeably. They know one of those word will get you slapped so they just use the other one.lol
Theses nothing really mixed about these signals. He just wants to bang you. If you want to get used keep on entertaining him. If you have any pride or self-esteem do better with someone better!
Last but not least is flaky behavior. If you have been dating a guy for a few weeks and he just starts to get flaky And he goes long periods without contacting you. You thought things were going well but now he seems hard to pin down. You may think that’s a mixed message but its not. You interviewed but you didn’t get the job. Apply somewhere else! At this point he’s only contacting you to let you down easy or validate himself when he’s bored or lonely. Your only promotion from this point is booty call status.
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