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Why Does He Keep Coming Back? When he doesn't even want a relationship?
By: Carlos Cavallo

If you've ever had a relationship that was rocky, and sometimes downright difficult, you may wonder why does he keep coming back?

Is he half interested?
Is he just using me?
What the heck is going on?
This can really drive you nuts because you feel like you have a good relationship. It's especially confusing if the relationship is passionate.

Does he love you?
What's going on in his head?
Why does he keep giving you false hopes?
As it turns out, men have a pattern with coming back to relationships.

And if you don't know what his behavior means, you might misunderstand and leave a perfectly good relationship it's on its way to marriage.

And this can feel even worse when he hasn't given you much of a commitment yet.

Do you experience any of these situations:

He cancels plans last minute with some fabricated excuse
He doesn’t treat you with the love or compassion that you deserve
He acts like a completely different person, sometimes when other people are around
He hasn’t introduced you to his friends or family
He doesn’t really plan things in the future with you
He just expects you to be ready whenever he calls on you
He loves it when you guys “get physical” but acts distant otherwise
This is a common problem that women have and don't even realize it. But again, the truth is that he's working things through in his head. Without guidance, and making wild assumptions that he will never ask you about.

It can be really confusing and difficult to know if you should stick with it or just walk away. Especially if it's your ex boyfriend that just can't stop coming back to you.

It doesn't really matter even who broke up with who!

It drives you nuts when he keeps leaving, and then he keeps coming back to you. Over and over again.

Have you ever had a boyfriend break up with you, and then he's engaged six months later to someone new?

The truth is that he's not marrying her, he's actually marrying you. She just happened to jump in the right place at the right time, and now she is his "replacement." (He still knows it's all really YOU, though.)

He's pinning his hopes that he had with you on HER.

Now, let's review what he really means by this phrase:

“I don't really want a relationship.”

He may not have said that in those precise words, but that's what you are left with.

He doesn't seem to want to make a commitment
He doesn't want a relationship
He doesn't want to be entangled or in anything “complicated”
Well, the truth is that he does want a relationship.

If you've been reading my articles, listening to my podcast, watching any of my videos, you know that I give you the straight truth about what men are thinking. Because I'm a man. And I spent over a decade working with men on why they choose one woman for a relationship instead of another.

Because, let's face it, if he didn't really want a relationship, and you probably think most men don't, how the heck are so many people in the world getting married and having kids?

After all, every single marriage requires two people!

Well, the truth is that men do want relationships. And YES - he probably wants a relationship with you.

When he says “I don't want a relationship” - what he's really saying is this:

“I want to see how you’re going to react when I tell you I don’t want a relationship.”

Yes, it's a test. And it's a test he doesn't even know he's giving you.

And it's also a test most women FAIL!

He might really wonder inside if he wants a relationship. The only reason he wonders is because…

Well, I'll come back to that in a little bit, so stick with me.

Let’s take a look at the reasons why he keeps coming back to you.

REASON 1: You are a convenient booty call.
Yeah, I hate to say this one, but it's true. A lot of women let men keep coming back for favors when they're broken up.

You know the pattern right? You guys break up, and then he's texting you a week later to come by and “talk.”

You let him come over because you want to see if maybe he wants to get back together. And the next thing you know it, you're waking up in bed together.

You're happy as can be, until you start expecting that things will go back to the way they were. And he doesn't even begin to mention restarting the relationship again with you. Or getting back together.

Inside your head, you're screaming “What are we?”

He doesn't mean to do it, but what he ends up doing is ...

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Carlos Cavallo
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