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How Men Test Women - Secret Tests That You Must Pass!
By: Carlos Cavallo

This is one of those things that I think every woman wants to know: How men test women.

But first I have to set the record straight on something right off the bat:

Men don't intentionally test women...!
Now you might find that a little bit hard to believe. After all, a lot of men's behavior seems to be testing their limits - and testing your patience.

Most of the time what he's doing is responding to emotions that he doesn't quite understand. He's just trying to figure out where he stands with you most of the time.

I know, I know. It's a little bit crazy. But let's be honest, you've done far worse, right?

The point is that guys aren't testing you from any kind of clever plan they come up with. They're testing you because they're just trying to get a response that he can work with.

So why is he testing you?
What's he playing at?
Is he just playing head games with you?
Well the good news is that if he is testing you, that means he's interested in you. That means he sees some potential for a relationship with you. Because a man only tests a woman if he's trying to see if she is safe for him.

It's kind of like him trying to find a safe path through a Minefield. Because guys don't know where the relationship and emotional land mines are. What they do know is, if he makes one wrong step, he could blow up the whole thing.

And again most guys don't have strong relationship skills. They look out for themselves, and then entrust the woman to guide him through the rest.

Which is all the more reason you have to have exceptional “man management” skills.

Which I will tell you right now, most women do not have. And I'm assuming you are reading my articles because these skills are something you know you need to have to succeed.

And you are absolutely right! The women who don't know how to manage their men almost always find their relationship blowing up.

A moment ago I mentioned that a man is trying to see if you are "safe for him." What does this mean?

What is safe for him?

I'm going to come back to this in a bit. Just keep in mind that it's the most important reason that he is testing you.

Test #1: “What's your phone number?”
This is one of those tests that can be a little bit tricky.

First of all, his purpose in asking you for your phone number is to get your phone number. It's not very complicated.

But, he knows that he will get a certain response from a certain kind of woman.

For example, a woman who is in high demand and valuable in the sexual Marketplace will not just give him her phone number. She will challenge him a little bit to see if he's up to the task.

“Why do you need my phone number?” she asks.

The reason a woman asks a guy this is to see if he's got some “game.”
Can he play with a little bit of banter?
Is he confident, or is he just going to roll over and be a wussy wimp who walks away with his tail between his legs.
And I encourage you, no matter what you may think of your value in the sexual marketplace, to adopt this exact same strategy. Ask him some kind of challenging question. Don't just give him the phone number right off the bat.

Because women who give the phone number right away are saying “Please please please - take it and call me because I'm desperate for a date.”

Of course that may not be what you're trying to say, but that's what he will be hearing. Especially if you seem too eager.

Women who have a lot of choice will shop a little bit and make sure she's getting a good "product." Which is why she knows to challenge him. She can afford to throw a few wimpy fish back into the pond.

Every woman that I have gotten a more challenging response from, were typically the women who had some choice. They didn't need to chase me. They didn't need to prove themselves to me.

They knew that if I could handle a little challenge when it came to getting her phone number that I was a much better candidate as a boyfriend or relationship. I was probably more confident and the kind of guy she would be attracted to.

Look at it this way: your response to him is a test to his test. In other words, you are turning the tests around on him. Which is why you have to know how to talk to men.

Test #2: “So I bet your ...

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Carlos Cavallo
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How Men Test Women
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