Why women fall prey to the mind games some men play, where their goal is to convince you to give your all and do for them, while they hold the carrot of becoming "girlfriend" or "wife" over your head. Some women make the fatal mistake of thinking they need to perform like a circus animal as they attempt to earn the "privilege" of being chosen for marriage (wifed up) which they believe validates them as a woman.

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