While many people believe that assertiveness is rude and ugly, Dr. Abby presents the beauty of assertiveness as a way to show the world that we are smart, kind, and important. Dr. Abby is a second-generation Filipino American whose research and findings on assertiveness have inspired her to tell the world how to find their voice. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx